Valentine’s doesn’t have to mean roses and reservations. Sometimes it’s quieter than that—a warm bath, a shared moment at home, or a thoughtful gift made by hand.
Making your own aromatherapy candle is an easy way to add intention to whatever plans you already have. One candle can move through many moments: self-care, connection, or a Galentine’s gift that actually feels personal.
Below is a simple DIY candle recipe, plus ideas for choosing essential oils based on how you want to use it.
A Simple DIY Aromatherapy Candle
This candle is meant to be easy, flexible, and enjoyable to make.
What You’ll Need
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Natural soy wax or beeswax
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A candle wick
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A heat-safe glass jar or ceramic vessel
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A double boiler or heat-safe bowl
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A spoon or wooden stir stick
How to Make It
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Melt the wax slowly using a double boiler.
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Secure the wick in the center of your jar.
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Once the wax has melted, remove it from heat and let it cool slightly.
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Add essential oils (about 20–30 drops per 8 oz of wax).
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Pour the wax into the jar and allow it to set completely before trimming the wick.
That’s it. From here, the candle becomes whatever you need it to be.
Choosing Essential Oils by Intention
Instead of following a strict recipe, choose oils based on how you plan to use the candle.
For a Romantic or Cozy Evening
Warm, soft aromas help create an inviting atmosphere without overpowering the space.
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Tangerine or Sweet Orange (to add a gentle brightness)
This works beautifully for a candlelit dinner, a shared bath, or time spent winding down together.
For a Self-Love Bath or Quiet Night In
If this candle is for slowing down, lean into calming, grounding notes.
Light it near the tub, add mineral bath salts, and keep everything unhurried. This candle pairs well with gentle skincare, a clay mask, or simply a moment of stillness.
For a Galentine’s Gift
When gifting, choose scents that feel comforting and widely loved.
These oils feel approachable and versatile—easy for anyone to enjoy at home.
One Candle, Many Ways to Use It
Once your candle is set, it naturally fits into different Valentine’s plans.
During a self-care bath
Place the candle near the tub for soft lighting and a calming scent. It instantly makes the space feel more intentional.
Alongside an at-home massage
Light the candle nearby while using a nourishing body oil. The glow and aroma help set the tone without distracting from the moment.
As part of a Galentine’s gift set
Pair your DIY candle with a bar soap, bath salts, or a small body oil. It’s thoughtful, handmade, and meant to be used—not tucked away.
A Candle That Fits Real Life
This DIY isn’t about creating something perfect. It’s about making something that feels warm, useful, and personal.
Light it when you need a pause. Share it when you want to connect. Gift it when you want to give something that feels considered and sincere.
Sometimes, that’s more than enough.